【提醒自己の做人准则】

❤要冷靜,要理智。要積極,要正面。要相信,要鼓勵。

優先顧及別人的感受,儘自己所能去幫助。

❤不要總是“以為”。

❤說話前三思、做事前三思、决定前三思。

❤要愛別人,要善待自己。

❤要果斷,做出正確並且理性的選擇。

2014年1月2日 星期四

Christmas Eve in 2013: Trip of Brotherhood in Malacca!!! :D

Yea, I finally had time to write about this since it's public holiday anyway :P

I was extremely excited and looking forward to this trip!
As it's already been a long time since my last vacation,
(Well as "vacation" I meant to leave KL! xD)
and the last time I went to Malacca was... When I was 7 years old? D:
And what makes me hyper was, I am gonna go there with the lovely PEOPLE!!!
Which were my Lordie John and Buddies: Mike + Tony :D


So this was where we had our first meal in Malacca! :D
We came here right after we reached here,
as we all wanted to eat the Chicken Rice Balls
It was crowded and we waited in the queue for quite a time
But it was worth to wait as the meal was great :D
Their services were good and efficient, 
and I especially liked the atmosphere here!
Felt great to eat in a place like this, antique-style eh? xD
Oh and the "八寶茶" was awesomely refreshing! :)
Really really thumbs up! 
WEEEEEEEEEE :P

And yes! After recharging our energy with food,
We started our tour around The Red House.
Sadly it's in renovation /__\
But we are still managed to get pictures TEEHEE!
This spot reminds me of the year 2011
when I came here with a bunch of prefect friends
for an interacting activity with some Taiwan students.
This place is simply awesome and meaningful to me
because there were a lot of important memories :))))

And oh! If you were to shop some souveniers
You can try explore around the booths just at the Red House area,
Well for us we didn't buy any stuffs
We fooled around instead TEEHEE!
This is one of our epic shots! xDDD
Spot me, Mike and Tony in John's sunglasses :DD



To be honest,
till now I didn't know
what exactly was the tower behind us xD
All I know it was a spinning "cookie"
that transfers people from the bottom
to the top of the tower.
I guess it would be amazing
to watch the Malacca town from there :D


And here we were at St. Paul's church! :D
I remembered my daddy brought me here when I was younger
And he told me stories but I forgot what they were now xD
This place seemed to be changed a lot
as I believed they had done a lot of renovations
and some modifications to protect the historical value of this place.


Not going to A'Famosa means you didn't visit Malacca!
So we did. xD
I love the pictures taken with them
Hmmmmm .....
And it seemed like I looked as a model when I was with Lordie eh? xD



And these were only me! :DDD
Left one taken by Lordie John with Iphone5
Right one taken by Buddie Mike with DSRL camera
Both looked good though xD
Credits to them!
WEEEEEEEE ~\(≧▽≦)/~



Top photo with Tony:
"Hmmmmm should cannons contain trash instead of rocks? o__O"
Middle photo with Sammie:
"!!!!!!! ....... (Speechless)"
Bottom photo with John:
"ARGHHHHH TRASHHHHHHHHH ARGHHHHH"
*Hulk-mode activated and Tony was in shock*

All taken by Mike xD
Fooling around with the cannons!
But seriously.
The cannons were full of trash =____=|||
I was literally surprised and disgusted .__.



Fooling around with mortars this time! xDD
And yea, not-surprisingly there were trash again /__\


Taken at the port at Malacca river.
Queenie Sam + Lordie John? xD
WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE ❤
Credits to Mike's photography :)





Looked familiar eh?
Clash of Clans? xDDD




I love this picture ;)
HAHAHAHA sometimes his rear view catches my attention
Maybe it's because he looked thinner? xD
OOPS and TEEHEE!! xDDD
But I really like this picture,
it seemed kinda romantic? :P


Two fools around the cannon again xD
Another favourite :)



Then we went for dinner in the famous restaurant
called "Capitol Satay" :DD
We actually went there at around 5pm++
But DARN I was starved for 3 hours++ 
just to wait in a queue QAQ
Because it was famous and lots of people were going for it
And the restaurant was small 
that only consist of 10 tables
So it required a lot of time to wait
but ITS WORTH FOR IT!!!! :D
Thumbs up for Capitol Satay 
WEEEEEEEEEEEEE ~\(≧▽≦)/~
After this meal then we went back
to our hotel to rest and recharge! :)



The 2nd day started with a KFC meal and yes.
The chickens here were bigger and meatier compared with KL's xD
You shall never miss out Malacca's coconut shake!!
It's nearby a place called Pantai Klebang
The coconut shake here was really refreshing and nice
I could taste some coconut milk, coconut water 
and crushed coconut flesh in it
Really yummy and it wasn't too sweet :>


We were supposed to visit Pantai Klebang the beach
but since we failed to find the actual beach
we went straight for the Durian Cendol
It was reallyyyy good :)
You can buy a lot of traditional food in here too
Ahhh.
Brings me back to the day where we all praising
how great was the durian cendol 

with the Taiwan friends as well x)

We actually went for the River Cruise but I didn't take pictures of them

as I was really tired with an unexpected cold-caused running nose :(
So Mike was the one to capture the special tour...
Do please forgive my laziness to upload those photos here xDDDDDDDD



So after had some tea-time and a ride
we gotta walk back to get our car
so we could head to the Portugese Village for Dinner!! :D
And this was taken on the way walking xD
Orang Utan House Eh? :)


So here it is Portugese Village!
According to John's explanation,
it is a tradition for the Portugese to decorate their houses
as they are having competition among the villagers.
On the day of Christmas Eve,
villagers will set booths to sell things
and houses were decorated nicely.
Well, though I am a Buddhist
who don't really celebrate Christmas in my family
But I enjoy seeing others to have fun
and exploring the difference of the cultures :D

So, Happy Birthday Jesus! :)




It was nearly sunset when we reached there.
This is another favourite photo of mine :D
Because it was with my Lordie ❤
Credits to Mike's photography once again! :D

Accidentally found out this in Mike's photo album
and I decided to include this in my blog
because he seemed cool in this pic xD
I guess this was probably taken
when Tony and me went to the washroom xD
Thumbs up for his coolness! WEEEEEEE ❤___❤
Thankiew Mike xDD



And this is probably the best photos ever.
The sunset in Portugese Village nearby a port.
Epic. Awesome. Graceful. Peaceful. Masterpiece.
Credits to Mike's photography. :)

After all the pictures of sunset we then had our dinner
at their restaurant just nearby.
And my goodness Portugese-baked meals are soooooooooooooooooo
DELICIOUS-AND-FINGER-LICKERING
It was spicy, a bit sour and savory but very refreshing taste! xDD
Another thumbs up for the meal 

WEEEEEEEE ~\(≧▽≦)/~


And so this is a really brief summary post about how the trip was,
just feel like wanted to write this down because it was one of my best moments! :')

Really gotta thanks to Lordie who made the booking and drove us
So the other 2 Buddies could join us the trip,
(We paid for the bills together oh yeahhh xD)
But well FINALLY! I am really glad that we are able to escape from our problems,
dumb all the stress in Malacca together :D

I truly enjoyed how we can be ourselves when we were together,
and we often have things to tease each other I guess? xD
It's really amazing that how some friends are meant to be,
Because the time of knowing someone
isn't necessarily to determine the closeness of friendship
For instance, I actually met these two Buddies like recently o.o
Well I met Tony earlier than Mike, I met Mike like just 2 months ago xD
However, they appeared to be one of my closest buddies (as in bros)
I can't help but to LOVE them unconditionally 
because we were all so MATCH from any aspects! 

Lucky to have such buddies to welcome the 2014 as well! :D
Cheers for our brotherhood 1314 ("forever") 
WEEEEEEEEEEE ~\(≧▽≦)/~



=THE END=




Regardless of what had happened in 2013,
Good ones or bad ones, it was meant to be over.
I am grateful that I had such moments 
which formed a better me, and a more colorful life :)
So, I am looking forward to the brand new 2014
And our next gathering/trip
And of course, it meant to be 
MORE GOOD FOOD & GOOD PICTURESS
WEEEEEEEEEEE ~\(≧▽≦)/~
I am only gonna look at the bright side. *___*/



2014年1月1日 星期三

2013年12月4日至7日 的【生命教育】

呼~ 活動一結束 我就一直在忙著老爸的旅行社打工
難得的公共假期 我終於可以更新部落格 =3=

工作之前一直在忙著的東西,就是這個
【“探遊生命花園”Sunny採訪營】
它不是一般的生活營,
而是結合了學習採訪 與 學習面對死亡、認識生命的營會
我覺得這是蠻值得分享的一個心得
因為站在一個中學生的角度來說,它是個對我們都重要的價值觀教育
我也希望我身邊的朋友可以感受得到,這個活動的意義。


在我繼續之前,先分享一些照片吧 :P

他是我這次活動的最佳拍檔(副營長) :)
除了要維持營會進行的秩序
我們也要充當開幕典禮的司儀 哈哈哈
還記得我們彩排的時候鬧了很多笑話 xD
雖然我總是開他玩笑
可是其實他的人很陽光很nice很體貼 也很沉穩
可以順便制止我 在見到馮以量  發花痴的症狀 xDD
謝謝有他一路以來的扶持和包容 :)

這是我在營員們上課的時候
在舞臺前控制處那裡偶然拍下的
大家上課超認真 哈哈哈
依稀記得 這時子賢坐在我隔壁設計冊子 呵呵
其實那時我們都很累 可是看他們很認真
我們可是誓言要把營會辦好!:>

這好像是我們往孝恩園出發前拍的吧
坦白說,這次能很投入這個營會的其中原因
是因為所做的都是我最喜歡的工作內容
當領導和司儀
所以我是真的很用心地完成每一件我需要做的事。
也因為是第一次擔當如此重任,
我抱著很多的憂慮和不安,而且對自己的要求真的很多
比如絕對不能拖延活動時間、時間要拿捏到剛剛好、要迅速解決問題、
要準時、要早起、要能嚴肅也能玩耍、不要被投訴、不能讓團隊有內戰、
不要罵人...... 等等的
我給自己最大的壓力,就是我想要突破自己的那股決心
儘管知道“人比人 比死人”的道理,
我還是會不禁希望自己不要和前屆營長相差得太遠... 
但從照片看來
原來我認真起來很不錯帥哦 XDDDD

雖然每一年都會來,但因為都是清明時期過來掃墓
人很多,也不方便拍照
但今天我逮到機會拍下這一幕 呵呵
不,我才沒有錢買DSRL的相機
我用的 只是我的iphone + 一些美圖技巧 XD

通過參觀孝恩園和孝恩館,
還有很多專業孝恩集團的工作人員講解
我才突然覺得 原來平時我真的忽略了很多小細節
原來葬禮是這樣的 文化是這樣的 等等
跟以前相比,對於社會的價值觀確實是相差甚遠
而且現在的殯葬業已經相對地更加專業 而不是什麽不吉利的事業
說真的,我還真有考慮過加入他們的團隊 可能可以嘗試當實習
應該會是個不錯又另類的學習體驗。:)

我們參觀過火化場、防腐室、骨灰展覽室、棺材展覽室等等
說真的 經過這些地方的時候,
總會覺得心裡酸酸的 畢竟我們很清楚這是一個什麼樣的場合
總有一天,我們要在這裡送走摯愛 亦或是在我們生命中出現的
或者是,我們自己。 【噢 不 我沒有emo xD】
所以,
來這些地方讓我更加強烈地感受到
我們有多麼需要好好珍惜在我們身邊的人。

營員:“人需要火化多久才會化成灰?”
師傅:“兩個小時。”(沉默許久)
“所以你要好好珍惜身邊的人,因為人走後,只要兩個小時就真的不見了。”
我:“...........” 
聽起來真的很心酸,但很有道理。

參觀過孝恩園後,我們到蕉賴孝恩館參觀
其實我每天上班或回家都一定會經過這裡
可是從來沒有想過會有機會進去參觀
是個很不錯的體驗。
其實也算是殯儀館 可是完全沒有可怕的氛圍
反而像是... 很平靜 很class 那般
廁所很乾淨 很舒服 xD

這次的參觀還有一項特別活動
就是關於無語良師計劃的講座
在這裡我真的是哭慘了
講座播放的影片,是許多大體老師在生時所說的話
我敬佩他們的勇氣和對社會偉大無私的愛
但就目前為止 我只有勇氣簽下捐贈器官同意書 >__<


以量先生!
講座結束后不忘和偶像拍照 XD
一見到他 我真的每次都好開心 ~\(≧▽≦)/~
自從他來我們學校給我們生命講座
我就真的超級崇拜他的 :)

進入防腐室之前 一位營員拍下的門前告示牌
寫著
“BEYOND THESE DOORS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ROOM IN OUR CENTER,
IT IS WHERE WE CARE FOR THOSE WHO CANNOT CARE FOR THEMSELVES.
SHOW RESPECT. THANK YOU.
在這幾扇門後就是孝恩館最重的地方
在那裡我們細心護理那些已無法照顧自己的人。
請示尊重。謝謝您。”


最後一天說感言的時候
其實真的一時間不懂要說什麼
我對感性這方面的表達沒有很好
可能我只是啰啰嗦嗦地說了一堆macam yes的東西
哈哈哈哈哈
但是我真的很感激有大家一起
成長和學習 :')

這次的採訪營可說是我在12月最有意義的重點活動
自己居然真的當上了【營長】
可能小時候常跟著父親帶團當導遊
所以總是覺得“主席”“值星”“X長”什麼職稱的聽起來很帥,
尤其站在前面報告東西的時候,真的超帥的 xD
所以一直很希望自己能夠有機會試試看
而我的許多第一次就這樣在2013年Sunny採訪營度過了。:)

我知道,我的想太多和強迫症 給我的工委們造成了一定的壓力
真的很對不起啊大家 是我自己對自己的要求太高
我太怕做不好 所以才會想那麼多的~
也很感謝你們能夠跟我配合 
因為我們大家同心協力 我終於達到了我最大的2個目標
即成為最佳工委團 + 營會順利進行

感謝媽咪沒有反對我參加這個營會,
沒有因為避諱而阻止我去孝恩園/館的地方參觀;
感謝美華學姐一直很耐心地帶領著我
哈哈哈 勞煩她輔導了我這個充滿強迫症的營長;
感謝全體工委,不計較我的強迫症也不計較我的猥褻 xD
在你們的面前,我可是很坦蕩蕩地、不顧形象地跟你們玩;
感謝全體營員的配合,如果不是你們,
我也無法學習如何好好地當個稱職的營長;
最後還要感謝我最親愛的【他】
願意載送我來這個營會、最後把我安全送到家之餘
還要安撫我這個 【喜歡逞強不愛哭 + 傲嬌到死 】的大哭包 :'(

我們明年再會!:)